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11 Mar

Why I Don't Do Comments on this Blog

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I've been back and forth on this topic over the years... starting without comments, but then allowing them later; first requiring approval and then not but now I've ultimately decided to turn them off and leave them off.

The debate rages on in the blog world but here's where I stand and why:

  1. Moderating - First, I had to put into place software to stop the robots from spamming me (which they do a lot) but then I had to also deal with humans that seem to have the sole desire to self-promote themselves or some unrelated product that doesn't add any value to the conversation.  Moderating takes time and it's not worth it to me.
     
  2. My Writing Style - I don't really look at myself as a "blogger" as this isn't my profession - I use it as a platform to share my ideas and keep track of stuff for myself.  In much of what I have to say, I'm not looking for a dialog or feedback.  It's not that I'm opposed to hearing your ideas; I just don't want to have to weed though non-value added content to find them.  If you do have something insightful to share with me, please email.
     
  3. De-Clutter/Cosmetic - I simply didn't like the way it looked.  It was too much; too distracting.
     
  4. Better Platforms - I post a link to all blog entries on my Facebook page and Google+; people are free to share whatever thoughts and feelings they may have there and those services at least require you to somewhat identify yourself (I could do that too but I really don't want to manage accounts anymore than I want to moderate comments - I just want to blather openly).

Social Proof?
That is one of the key things the "experts" say is a benefit of using comments (and using strategies to rack up as many as possible).  Someone is more apt to read and share your article if they see that other people have already done so.  Basically, people will respond more positively to an article that has 300 comments than one without any; their opinion of the piece will be swayed based on this amount of social proof.  Same goes for Facebook "likes" and number of Tweets.

But I don't care so much for the social proof.  I write to share ideas and discoveries and am only interested in connecting with independent thinkers; those that I don't think would be so susceptible to mob mentality.

So it's final.

"When you sit, sit. When you stand, stand. Whatever you do, don't wobble." -Dan Millman, Way of the Peaceful Warrior

29 Sep

Power to Motivate and Inspire

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Pancake and I were sitting around one day talking about misc. philosophical stuff and the question came up about which super power we'd each like to have.  Though I agreed that it would be cool to be able to fly or be invisible or whatever, the truth is I'd like the power to inject music into the head of anyone or everyone I want.  I also admit that often times during a conversation, and though I look focused (and I am), I'm also thinking about what song to play in your head.
 
I'm telling you... with this power I could lift the mood of the whole world.  Turn it up!
 
In the fantastic End Malaria book (At least $20 from each copy sold goes to Malaria No More, an international advocacy organization, to send a mosquito net to a family in need and to support life-saving work in the fight against malaria.), Pam Slim, recommends keeping a playlist close by that reinvigorates your passion.

11 Aug

Just Finesse It

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It seems the default mode for all the girls in our home is "at first you don't succeed, force it."  I'm usually yelling across the room as my brain predicts the half-dozen ways the thing is going to break with, "just finesse it."  They make fun of me.  So too did my sister when I told her the same thing as she was visiting us from California.

The day after she got back home I received this email from her:

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Subject: Finesse

"Finesse translates to giving a shit." - Anthony Bourdain

You are right. I shouldn't down play finesse.

Love ya!
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Granted it took some help  from Anthony Bourdain to get them to see the light but then again I've never seen it so simply and eloquently stated as that either!

04 Feb

You are the They

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This may be the most common response people use for just about any big issue, "they're working on it," "they have solutions," "they say," etc. ect. etc. Who is this infamous "they" and what are they doing and how do you know?

The one academic lesson I learned my freshman year of college was during a psychology class where the prof told the story of a woman who was brutally raped and murdered in the courtyard of a housing complex. It was a warm summer night and everybody had their windows opened and could hear the assault but nobody called for help. Later, when asked by police why nobody helped or called for help the response was the same for everyone - they thought somebody would do it so they didn't need to. Lesson learned: don't assume anybody is doing anything.

So when you say, "they will fix the issue," what I'm hearing is, "someone who cares more than I do is probably going to take care of it." And I hope you're right but if I care about it too, then I'm going to find out who they are and what they're doing and see if there is some way my skills can help. On many issues - especially macroeconomics and ecology - your livelihood is on the line and turning a blind-eye is a risky proposition.

I understand all things aren't inside our sphere of influence. And some things that are inside our sphere of influence hardly seem worthwhile since your single output is like a raindrop in the ocean. But you're wrong. Look at history. There was a single person that started doing something different. Someone else saw how well it worked and did it too. We're not drops in the ocean but more like a spark in the forest and if it catches hold will spread like wild.

Don't wait for someone else to lead the way. We all need to do our part. When you or I are in that courtyard we'll both be hoping that everybody rises up. As Gandhi said, "You must be the change you wish to see in the world."

23 Dec

Sustainability, One Small Decision at a Time

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You don’t have to look very far to see the atrocities that are reaped onto our planet and all it contains, including our species. Most of it is due to ignorance, greed, and/or shortsightedness. Born into the culture, we inherently become small parts of a larger problem. The question is, do we see it, do we care, and are we willing to consciously make adjustments? You don't have to become an activist, you don't have to try and convince other people, you don't have to dramatically change your life (unless you want to), and you don't have to spend a whole lot of energy or time. Just consciously think about sustainability in the decisions and choices you make throughout your days. Lead by example and it does add up. The force is strong in you. R7CEDHDW2KQP

Sustainability Chart

14 Oct

True Size of Africa and True Size of Geography Education in America

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True Size of Africa

A friend sent this to me from informationisbeautiful.net.

It seems we need a little more geography education in this country:

"A survey with random American schoolkids let them guess the population and land area of their country.  Not entirely unexpected, but still rather unsettling, the majority chose "1-2 billion" and "largest in the world", respectively."

Click to see True Size of Africa.


 

I received this response via email:

"YES...I agree that our academic standards are pathetic.  I walked away with a bachelor degree and the only thing I learned is that I’m a good bullshitter and work well under pressure (a.k.a. procrastination).  What’s worse is knowing that I’m smarter than at least two-thirds of the American population.  
 
Society is a heinous state right now.  There are too many unstimulating things numbing our brains.  We are taught not to think for ourselves and not to question authority.  I often find myself wanting to turn my brain off as well and it breaks my heart.  It’s the easy way out; the easy way to cope with the society we’ve created.
 
I’ve never quite fit the mold and for that I am thankful.  For some unbeknownst reason...I’ve always been a thinker, a dreamer, an explorer, & a creator!  I’m rollerblading in the house as I type this! ;)"

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